Everyone thinks you're fine.

Executive coaching for leaders in the middle of something hard.

Chris Poyzer, MSW

Founder, Cardinal Point Leadership

The Long Goodbye
What My Wife's Illness and Death Taught Me About Leadership

Sitting in that sunroom, it hit me. Not as panic, but as clarity: This was not going to be a single goodbye someday down the road. This was going to be a long one. At first, that realization felt cruel. Over time, I realized I had been given something rare: the chance to say goodbye every day, forever.— from Chapter 1, "The Sunroom"

Part memoir, part coaching playbook. The Long Goodbye weaves research-backed leadership frameworks with the rawest moments of my life — a decade of loving someone while losing her, and everything it taught me about presence, trust, resilience, and the conversations we're most afraid to have.

Because the way we lead is shaped by the way we've lived. And our crucibles become our credentials.

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More About Chris

My first wife Tania was diagnosed with Huntington's Disease early in our marriage. It was just the two of us. I became her caregiver — managing medications, sleepless nights, the slow losses that don't announce themselves — while showing up to work the next morning like everything was fine.

It wasn't fine. But I kept going. And somewhere in that decade, I learned something about leadership that no certification teaches: that the hardest thing you'll ever manage isn't a P&L or a team — it's yourself, when the ground shifts underneath you and no one knows what you're carrying.

I've spent 25 years in counseling, social work, and executive development — including time as the in-house Executive Coach at MarineMax. I now work exclusively with executives navigating crucibles — the kind of thing you don't bring up at the leadership offsite.

Chris holds an MSW from the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minnesota, and is a Brain-Based Certified Coach through the NeuroLeadership Institute.

"A unique blend of attributes that set him apart. Insights and guidance that are both pragmatic and transformative." — Regional President
"Insightful and gracious. You will not be disappointed." — SVP, Talent and Team Development
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