Everyone loves quoting The Godfather: “It’s not personal, it’s strictly business.” But what if that’s the most misunderstood line in leadership? In this sic Leadership Series episode, Chris Poyzer unpacks the myth that business can ever be “just business.” From Cadillac lunch loyalty tests to the reality of bosses who literally hold your livelihood in their hands, this episode serves up sarcasm, smirks, and a heavy dash of reality. Because the workplace is more personal than most leaders want to admit—and if you ignore that, you’re missing the real drama (and the real risk) of leadership.
Every leader wrestles with the same delusion—that their decisions, vision, and expensive MBA control outcomes. The research tells a different story: you influence roughly 45% of results, while the remaining 55% belongs to market forces, timing, luck, and whatever curveball the universe decides to throw next. This isn't about diminishing leadership; it's about distinguishing between genuine influence and the dangerous fairy tale that you're the puppet master of every outcome. For executives who've built their identity around being the decisive factor (and have the corner office to prove it), this reality check explores what authentic leadership looks like when you own your 45%, acknowledge the chaos you can't control, and stop letting either success or failure feed your ego's favorite bedtime story. Because the most dangerous leader isn't the one who lacks control—it's the one who thinks they have it all, probably convinced they're calling every shot from their executive perch.
Key Insights: "If you think you're calling all the shots, try living off a forecast of 'partly sunny with a chance of humility.'"
"Sometimes leadership is just as stubborn—refusing what doesn't fit our script, even when it's exactly what the moment calls for."
Not every sic Leadership episode is pure sarcasm—some are unconventional truths wrapped in personal history. Fifteen years ago, long before I became an executive coach, I was a school social worker. One afternoon, I was counseling a six-year-old boy who, like me, had experienced deep loss. My late wife, Tania, had passed away after a long battle with Huntington’s disease, and I had remarried not long after.
In the middle of our session, this quiet, pacing boy stopped, locked eyes with me, and asked why I got married so soon after my wife died. Before I could answer, he fired back: “Because you didn’t want to be alone.” Then came the blow that stuck with me ever since: “Superman is stronger than you.”
From a leadership psychology standpoint, this was tough empathy in action—raw truth delivered without cushioning. Most leaders avoid these moments because vulnerability feels like weakness. Yet research shows the opposite: leaders who reveal appropriate vulnerability are seen as more authentic, trustworthy, and relatable. We remember them not because they never flinched, but because they showed they were human.
The question isn’t whether Superman is stronger than you—it’s whether you’re willing to step out from behind the cape. Strong leaders don’t just project resilience; they model it by owning the messy truth and still moving forward.
So here’s your challenge: Who in your world needs to hear your truth, unfiltered? And more importantly, what powerful questions are you avoiding because you’re afraid they might expose you?
🎧 Listen to the episode: “Superman Is Stronger Than You” — Audio Version (MP3) Below...
In this episode, Chris Poyzer takes aim at one of leadership’s biggest myths: that doubling down on your strengths is always the answer. Pulling from psychology, research on autopilot behavior, and yes — a Seinfeld locker room moment — Chris unpacks how leaders fall into the “chucker trap.”
We lean into what we’re known for… until it becomes predictable, automatic, and ineffective. Strengths turn into defaults. Defaults become blind spots. And suddenly, we’re not leading — we’re just chucking.
Leadership Psychology Angle:
Research shows most people operate on autopilot for a majority of their day — defaulting to ingrained habits rather than deliberate choices. Leaders aren’t immune. That’s why reflection is crucial: the ability to pause, interrupt those defaults, and ask yourself better questions before acting.
Five Questions to Ask Yourself After Listening:
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“We’ve got big things planned for you.”
Yeah? You’ve been hearing that for three years.
Waiting so long, you’re starting to forget what fired you up.
Sometimes that old Clash line plays in your head:
“Should I stay or should I go now?
If you say that you are mine, I’ll be here 'til the end of time.”
You want to be chosen.
You want that loyalty paid back.
But here’s the line that actually hits:
“If I go, there will be trouble...
And if I stay, it will be double.”
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